YOU are the one deciding when you can accept it and move on. As far as WHY you can’t get over your ex-wife, there are several possible reasons.But instead of listing them, I am going to offer: 6 things to do if you NEVER want to get over your ex The beauty about getting over your ex-wife/husband is that it happens when you least expect it (in my opinion.) All of a sudden, you realize that you didn’t cry today. Reply I do pray , Doug I want my family back together. They will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. What are the chances they are going to end up happily ever after? Focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. I'm so so sorry." She will still be upset, but at least you're thinking of your friend's feelings. If she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have. So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. I hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you.
You’re panicking because there are too many unknowns. He seems to be all set the way thing are, so what makes you think there is anything in the script that is going to prompt him to get out? I (personally) would NEVER start dating a guy who was still living with his previous partner.So I found myself imagining that a new relationship, this time with the right person, would help me climb out of the ditch the divorce left me in.People offered me all sorts of advice to talk me out of rebounding, but nobody was able to change my determined mind.The person has to do it on their own, and on their own timetable.Sure, there are things you can do to TRY to get over your ex–like see a therapist, engage in a new hobby, find faith, exercise, start volunteering, focus on career, etc. and they might help, but the letting go part is all up to you.You say you don’t ask him what goes on at home because he’d bring it up if he wanted to.